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i will stop
Age: .0001 Location: england Gender: Male Sexuality: Gay
I'm scared my cum will shoot in my eye and I'll go blind.
Age: 8 Location: TX Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
No
Age: 8 Location: Burlington vt Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Nope, feels too good ha ha.
Age: 11 Location: USA Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
not at all it just gives u pleasure and feels GREAT i advise it
Age: 11 Location: vernon Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Absolutely not, from an early age I learned not to, and JackinWorld has been very reassuring!
Age: 12 Location: USA Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
No. I am comfortable with it.
Age: 12 Location: Green Bay Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
Yes, I fear someone will catch me jacking off. I also fear that my friends will find out, tease me, and then tell everyone in the entire school.
Age: 12 Location: Springfield, MA, USA Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
That my family will walk in on me
Age: 12 Location: Idaho Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
yes, if i get caught, as i masturbate alot, and in places that people can easily catch me, i only do that cause i get horny alot.
Age: 12 Location: USA Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
Getting caught in the act is my main worry to be perfectly honest....
Age: 12 Location: England Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
None, ive even wanked when their was a chance of being caught. If i get hard at school or out with friends i dont try to hide it. So no i have no fears about wanking in fact my dad taught me and my two older brothers how to do it so we would not get confused with the things we hear at school.
Age: 13 Location: Sunderland, England Gender: Male Sexuality: Gay
no
Age: 13 Location: CA Gender: Sexuality:
Not really
Age: 13 Location: California Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
other than that sometimes i think i may be working my penis too hard, not at all.
there is also the obvious one of being caught aswell...
Age: 13 Location: england Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
I used to be a little bit scared, but that was when I was around 8-9 (I was early I know.) It was mainly because my dad told me not to do it, after seeing me once, and I usually did anything my dad told me to. And he was usually right which is why I usually did what he said. Except when I tried to stop I couldn't, so I just kept rubbing myself sore! I found JackinWorld early age 11, and it has removed so many of my fears. Even though I am straight, I would like to have a mutual masturbation session with some of them to hopefully remove some of their fears, and maybe learn some new techniques myself, I will also happily lead them to JackinWorld. Too bad a lot of them haven't even strted puberty and even thought of masturbation yet (or so I think) so I guess I'll just have to wait.
Age: 13 Location: Texas, USA Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I have a small fear that sometimes I may masturbate too much/ I enjoy it too much. It doesn't get in the way of my life or anything but...
Age: 13 Location: Florida Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I used to be scared of all thoughs " you will go blind" sort of myths but rightnow I am more concerned about my family catching me.
Age: 13 Location: Georgia Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I wank and have a orgasim im 13 and dnt cumm
Age: 13 Location: Australia Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
My biggest fear is that it reduces size and kills brain cells. :(
Age: 13 Location: CA Gender: Male Sexuality:
I am afraid of breaking/bending it...
Age: 13 Location: NY Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
For some reason I am afraid to ejaculate. I really don't know why, Mabye because ill make a noise and my parent will hear.
Age: 13 Location: ny Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I wouldn't say so.....
Age: 13 Location: California Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
Nope. Feels great. Need somebody to share it with
Age: 13 Location: DetroiT Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
Lossing my sight
Age: 13 Location: Usa Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
No none at all. All I know is it feels good and there's no shame in that.
Age: 13 Location: Chicago, IL Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
Maybe being caught by someone.
Age: 13 Location: Limerick Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Yeah, it has a perfect round mushroom tip and it's fun to play with and it is pretty long I am circumcised and I think it looks better and feels better
Age: 13 Location: Canada Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
No I don't have any fears about Masterbating
Age: 13.5 Location: USA Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Umm... I suppose getting caught by my parents
Age: 14 Location: US Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
only that of being caught or that of over doing
Age: 14 Location: USA Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I have a fear that I will break my hand and won't be able to jack off
Age: 14 Location: USA Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
yes because my penis is just right size its 5.8 inches so nothing to complain about there plus it will probaly get bigger :)
Age: 14 Location: Kansas Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
No personally i don't have a fear about jackin off, the only thing that makes me nervous is if I ever got caught by my sister or mom. Ive already caught my dad in the act and hes caught me and we talk about it like its no big deal so if he sees me I don't care. But if my mom or sister saw me Id be dead.
Age: 14 Location: Canada Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Being caught is a huge fear of mine. I remember one time I was beating off to porn when I heard someone approaching my room so I got really scared and began trying to pull up my jeans and sort out my belt but I was too late. My brother older brother walked in and saw what I was doing. He laughed until he had tears in his eyes then said "Dinner's ready you horny fucktard." Even if I had managed to pull my jeans up and sort out my belt he would've realized what I was doing because I forgot to close the window the porn was on.
Age: 14 Location: The Milky Way Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I fear i might do it to much and, become some sort of sex addict. Kinda' a weird fear but, it keeps me from jacking to a lot.
Age: 14 Location: ky Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I do worry occasionally, but not about my health or anything, just getting caught or someone telling another that they know. My close friends know, but my relatives don't (I don't think)
Age: 14 Location: USA Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
No i did not!
Age: 14 Location: aus Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
the only fear i have is when i masturbate in a pubic place, the fear is getting caught by someone but the fear of being caught jackin off makes it more fun
Age: 14 Location: australiA Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
yes i dont want my penis bending to the side
Age: 14 Location: england Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
No, every time I do tug my Andy johnson I normally just think. It's the guilt talking. I think self fucking is about enyoying yourself
Age: 14 Location: Chicago Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
My only fear about masturbation is being caught. It's scary and very annoying when someone walks in to your room when you're having a great session. I enjoy masturbating to porn so it's even worse when I have to pause the porn, minimize the window, and pull up my jeans or whatever.
Age: 14 Location: The Milky Way Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
alllll the timeee to much really
Age: 14 Location: usa Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Really, my only fears are getting caught (obviously) and what's worried me recently is that I've gone about 6 days w/o masturbating and I haven't even noticed. I'm usually at it every day. What bothers me more is that I still haven't masturbated even after noticing this
Age: 14 Location: california Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
nope
Age: 14 Location: california Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
No
Age: 14 Location: Usa Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I dont really have any fears like myths you hear about ('you will get acne if you masturbate')... I have a girlfriend, and I worry if I masturbate too offen I will not be so... 'horny' for her or enjoy hugging as much, or loose confidence around her. Things like that. I certainly do not have sex with her... I'ts just im abit concerned if it does affect thing like I mentioned.
Age: 14 Location: Australia Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
No
Age: 14 Location: US Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
No. Way
Age: 14 Location: Nashville Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
Yes. I just started going through puberty and I'm 14. I have very little pubic hair, a baby dick, and little girl's voice. I jack off about once a day everyday. Does excessive masturbating effect the rate of puberty?
Age: 14 Location: NJ Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Sure. I worry that someone's going to walk in during, or I'll accidentally fracture my penis, or crack my head open in the throes of orgasm. The risks are about the same as with sex, minus STD's.
Age: 14 Location: California Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
No, only being discovered doing it!
Age: 14 Location: England Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
no none acsept being caught
Age: 14 Location: ljubljana Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Hmmmm not that i know of...
Age: 14 Location: Minnesota Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Just that I will get caught in the act...again
Age: 14 Location: South Dakota Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
None
Age: 14 Location: CA Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
No not really except the fact I'll get caught but that's not a fear about it
Age: 14 Location: Southern California Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
That my penis falls off.
Age: 14 Location: Carcer City Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
im scard of my parents ever seeing me masturbating.
Age: 14 Location: ontario, canada Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
The only fear I have is being walked in on. That would be so akward.
Age: 14 Location: United States Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
My only fears are jerking too hard and causing it to bleed, and getting caught by my parents
Age: 14 Location: NJ Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
No fears! I just relax, and pump away!
Age: 14 Location: Canada Gender: Male Sexuality: Gay
Getting "caught"
Age: 14 Location: Aberdeen, south dakota Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
being caught by parents...
Age: 14 Location: New Jersey Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
No
Age: 15 Location: Canada Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
being caught in action my by parents. or maybe getting to attached to it.
Age: 15 Location: CA Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
When I first started puberty and masturbating, I was always afraid of being walked in on even though my parents talk openly about how normal masturbation is. Well I'm 15 now and don't worry about being walked in on because of my parents reinforcing in me that it's okay. I sometimes even masturbate with my door open when they're home. It makes me feel good to not have to hide or worry now. Thanks Mom & Dad !!
Age: 15 Location: Pittsburgh, Pa. Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
No, give me a reason why i should
Age: 15 Location: canada Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Yeah. My only fear is that my parents will find me looking at porn or jacking off with friends.
Age: 15 Location: NJ Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
The only fears I have about masturbation is being caught, although now I am realizing that it is more out of embarrassment rather than being afraid of getting in trouble. MASTURBAION IS NOT SOMETHING TO FEAR!!!!!!
Age: 15 Location: Washington Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
Getting caught
Age: 15 Location: N/A Gender: Male Sexuality:
I fear that i will be caught
Age: 15 Location: Concord, Ca Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
yeah im not sure if my dick will shrink up or someone might walk in on me or something
Age: 15 Location: NC bitches Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
No
Age: 15 Location: USA Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
no only that i will run out of techniqes. or that i will get walked in on........... crap i guess i do
Age: 15 Location: my penis Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
No, there is no reason to have any fears.
Age: 15 Location: Florida Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Really only two... One is that I would have to go a lengthy stretch of time without it (last week I had to in a shared hotel room with my parents in a nearby bed! I just masturbated VERY quietly and came in the sheets, we were only there for a night so it wasn't my problem). My other worry is that masturbation will become just a routine and nothing more, like it would become pointless.
Age: 15 Location: Canada Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Only getting caught, that's pretty much it...
Age: 15 Location: Scotland Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
Yes, I do. I am 15 and still can't ejaculate, I am worried i wont be able to even when I get older...
Age: 15 Location: ny Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
It's a fear but at the same time it's fun and exharating. I masturbate everywhere I go. Public places, friends houses, school, etc. I just like the idea of having sex (with myself or girlfriend) in public places. My gf and I have had sex in every bathroom in my school, two unused classrooms that noone ever goes into, in my football locker room while it was empty (we had sex on one of the wooden benches), and during one pep rally (she sat on my lap and we rocked really slowly, fucking under her skirt.). Being a cheerleader, she has to wear panties most of the time, but in class and when she doesn't have to practice she never wears them so I can finger her during class). She's a squirter and one time her cum hit the girl across from us but she had no idea what it was so she let it go. Her parents are nudists so naturally I spend a lot of time at her house...they're completely open to sex and we've had sex in the living room with them right there! I suppose my fear of public sex (and turn on at the same time) is the fear of being caught. So far, no such luck, but who knows. One time her parents took us and her younger brother to a beach (nude, but my parents didn't know that) in Florida. Oh we had a lot of fun. Her brother 12 at the time, didn't know how to masturbate (even though he saw it all the time, which I found to be odd) so we taught him how and we all had sex on the beach together. He found a hot girl there about his age who loved sex too. Oh the fear of public sex/masturbation is great, but overcoming it can be even greater.
Age: 15 Location: Louisiana Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Of course I fear getting caught. Besides that I fear that if I ask a friend to masturbate with me (which is unlikely) he will decline and I will be embarrased.
Age: 15 Location: Seattle WA Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
yes.i think i might be masturbating a little to rough.but it feels to good
Age: 15 Location: Virginia Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Yes, when I masterbate I'm scared to ejaculate. I'm 15 and I have only ejaculated on purpose once and it didnt even feel that good to me. I was just scared to try and cum i dont know why. is this normal though? or am I just weird?
Age: 15 Location: massachusetts Gender: Male Sexuality:
just having a family member walk in on me
Age: 15 Location: home Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Only about getting walked in on!
Age: 15 Location: UK Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
No!! I love it. When I start to ejaculate I want even hareder and for me it is the best part! So no I don't fear it BUT LOVE LOVE it!
Age: 15 Location: south africa Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
Not now thanks to jackinworld.
But I used to bE scared that I could get someone pregnant by masturbating by the toilet because I thought semen would just jump onto any person who came close to it.
But not anymore!
Age: 15 Location: Canada Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
No i think it's great!! I'm 15
Age: 15 Location: England Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Jackinworld is such a great site to learn from.
I use to have lots of fears about masturbation like is it normal, is it bad for you and even that you could get someone pregnant by doing it somehow, but jackinworld made me feel so much better about masturbation and now I masturbate 1-2 times a day without any worry and i love it, but I wish I would have more privacy or alone time so I could do it in my room more and have a long enjoyable session, but that doesn't happen much, but I want it to! So instead I do it in the shower most mornings with conditioner as lube. So go enjoy masturbation without any fears.
Age: 15 Location: Canada Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
yes, i have been masturbating about once every few days for a couple months and now my dick is larger under the head than the bottom and curves to the left. HELP!!
Age: 15 Location: USA Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Some times!
Age: 15 Location: Kochi Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
No, i am pretty comfortable with masturbation and I do at least once a day. I really don't care if I were to get caught.
Age: 15 Location: South Carolina Gender: Male Sexuality: Gay
Yas I'm am afraid of being caught simply for the embasasment of it
Age: 15 Location: MI Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
? no not really, what fears are there?
Age: 15 Location: CA Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I'm afraid that because I'm a lefty, my dick will be twisted slightly to the left, and I've noticed that it is a bit. Hmmm... guess I beat off too much ;)
Age: 15 Location: Canada Gender: Male Sexuality: Gay
I worry that someone might catch me. It's embarrassing enough for a guy if someone finds out, but for a girl it's a whole different ball game. I also worry that having sex won't measure up to masturbating.
Age: 15 Location: USA Gender: Female Sexuality: Straight
None what so ever! The only fear I have is that I won't be able to masterbate. My moms already caught me doing it twice so she doesn't care. Three of my friends have caught me and two out of three ended up with me masterbating with them. So I'm not to scared of that.
Age: 15 Location: Illinois Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
no
Age: 15 Location: canada Gender: Male Sexuality:
no, just so that I masturbate alone or with someone of sexual intimacy.
Age: 15 years Location: Brazil Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
yeah, that any of my family members catch me. also, but not so much as a fear, when i ejaculate, im sort of afraid that my cum will squirt everywhere.
Age: 16 Location: los angeles Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Scared I'll pull my dick off!
Age: 16 Location: Toronto Gender: Male Sexuality: Gay
only getting caught
Age: 16 Location: Washington Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Not at all! Sometimes I'm anxious about being walked in on but that's about it.
Age: 16 Location: Washington State Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
no it feels amazing just to blow a big fat load of nice warm cum all over my smooth abs
Age: 16 Location: missouri Gender: Male Sexuality:
Not sure what you mean by fears, but I don't think I have any except maybe getting caught at home or something. I think jacking off is good stuff and I like doing it alone and I love doing it with friends or with my girlfriend and she likes doing it to me and I'm all for that. I guess nothing about it makes me afraid or anything like that.
Age: 16 Location: Kingston, Ontario Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
getting caught
Age: 16 Location: Washington Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I have no fears at all. I thoroughly enjoy masturbation! It is the greatest sensation I have ever felt rush through my body as of yet
Age: 16 Location: USA Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I fear of being caught by my parents or sybolings.there always right around when i feel the urge to jackoff. that and the guilty feeling afterwards.
Age: 16 Location: Oregon Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I wouldn't say I have any fears as such about masturbation, but I do get slightly concerned with the effect it will have when i get a girlfriends. I've been masturbating for a few years now but think that i may have problems with the whole sharing intimate details with anyone else. I've never really spoke to anyone else about masturbation or sex or anything like that. I suppose it another one of lifes things we all have to overcome at the right moment but it still worries me all the same.
Age: 16 Location: uk Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Probably the only thing I am afraid of is being discovered masturbating by either my mom or my sister. That would be horrifying.
Age: 16 Location: Colorado Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
yes getting caught
Age: 16 Location: usa Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
I can't really say that I do at least not any that come to mind. I guess one would be getting caught by say a parent or sibling.
Age: 16 Location: virginia Gender: Male Sexuality: Gay
No, feels to good when I shoot my load. I do it 2-4 times a day. Best feeling ever when you play with your junk!!
Age: 16 Location: Utah Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
Right now when I masturbate, I have to masturbate very quickly to achieve orgasm. The masturbation over the years has de-sensitized my penis I think, and now I need to go very quickly for 20 minutes non stop to climax. My fear is that when I actually have sex *still a virgin* I won't be able to orgasm.
Age: 16 Location: SG Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
When jacking off, I am usually afraid of being caught. Someimes this fear of being walked in on heightens the mood and sensation, but otherwise I try to be careful by masturbating in my room with the door locked. I then try to be as quiet as possible depending on when I am jacking off. If it's in the middle of the day, I have to try and keep myself from moaning too loudly and moving around too much. This also means I have to masturbate quickly to reduce the chance of getting caught. If the session is late at night, however, I know I am safe to make a little more noise and basically enjoy myself more by making it last until I can't go any longer and have a very powerful orgasm. Then there's the fear of cleaning up my semen and hiding it so no one can find the soaked tissues or sock...
Age: 16 Location: RI Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Yea. I've noticed lately that I get turned on by the thought of masturbating rather than the thought of sex and then masturbating. A little odd. Who knows, maybe this is the best birth control ever known to man!
Age: 16 Location: Kansas Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I think masturbation affects health
Age: 16 Location: Oman Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Yea, I don't want to have a decrease amount of pleasure when I am older.
Age: 16 Location: Brockville, Ontario, Canada Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I often get soft after 2 mins, but it mostly depends on if I want to keep on going again.
Age: 16 Location: US Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
Getting found out i almost got caugjt once when my sister walked in i went straight to a gmae online
Age: 16 Location: Uk Gender: Sexuality:
I don't really have any fears about masturbation. I guess my worst fear would be something happening that would make me unable to or not want to masturbate ever again. But seeing as how I have about a three year history filled with wonderful self-pleasure experiences and fantasies, I don't see that happening any time soon. Yay!
Age: 16 Location: Alabama Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I always masterbate dry, I rarely use any lotion or any of that. I'm abit nervous I'll begin to sprout a rash or something.
Age: 16 Location: NYC Gender: Male Sexuality: Gay
Getting caught by my grandma
Age: 16 Location: ca Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
My fear about masturbation is that one day I will get caught by my parents. They don't know that I do it and I worry that if they every find out their image of me will be ruined and they will start treating me differently. My parents are always home, so this fear is always present whenever I masturbate. It always makes me want to finish quickly and I've never fully been able to enjoy myself.
Age: 16 Location: USA Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I would say the thing that i fear the most is being caught or walked in on while im doing it. I would also like to try anal masturbation just to see what it feels like but i fear what will happen. I also fear what it will feel like. I also fear that if i get lube to do anal masturbation then it would be found. Im a lot more confident now then when i started but theres still many fears i need to overcome. I can now masturbate more freely which is great. I can lick my penis without that fear. Only excitement. All i fear now is anal masturbation and eating. I think being able to do both would greatly increase my masturbation experience.
Age: 16 Location: United Kingdom Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Yeh, I wonder if my orgasm will decease in niceness over time but I do hope they'll increase:)
Age: 16 Location: Sun Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
That when I have sex, I will cum to early
Age: 16 Location: Australia Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
Only that I'll get walked in on while doing it.
Age: 16 Location: UK Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Getting Caught is the biggest one
Age: 16 Location: America Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
My biggest fear is that I will be caught. In my fantasies I always imagine doing it with a friend, yet if I was caught by a family member I would be very embarrassed. This fear is heightened for I have little privacy in my home.
Age: 16 Location: California Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
I love to masturbate, i do it at least twice a day and i love to eat my own semen. The only thing i fear is that i will not be able to give up masturbation if ever a time comes when i need to.
Age: 16 Location: England Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
Ok, this might sound weird and you might not believe me but... About two years ago, when I was 14, my sister had two friends over, a 6 year old girl and a 9 year old boy. My sister and the 6 year old were playing in her room and I let the 10 year old play my ps2 and I decided to take a shower. After I got out I went into my bedroom (where the little boy was playing my ps2) and got my clothes. I was going to go back into the bathroom but I decided since he wasn't paying attention I would just get dressed in there. I locked my door then started to dry off, then I layed down on my bed which was behind him and I started masturbating. He didn't turn around or anything but he might have heard me.
Age: 16 Location: Texas Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Actually, the only thing I worry about is whether or not I'll be addicted to it. Hopefully once I can get out of the house and be with my boyfriend for real, I won't have to worry about it so much. :)
Other than that, I'm pretty good. Just wish I had someone to do it with when I need to. :(
Age: 16 Location: Sierra Vista, AZ Gender: Male Sexuality: Gay
I fear that I might get caught one day!
Age: 16 Location: UK Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I fear sometimes that I am going to get caught masturbating, and I also sometimes worry that I don't ejaculate as much as others might.
Age: 16 Location: California Gender: Male Sexuality:
Only fears that I have about sex, and those are few.A little while ago, I noticed my testies would hurt sometimes. I stopped masturbating for a week to find that the pain got worse and worse. I eventually gave in, and found that the next day, there was no pain! My body actually wants me to masturbate, it seems.
Oh. One thing I am afraid of is getting caught. Little awkward.
Age: 16 Location: BC, Canada Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
No it feels amazing why would i be scared of it
Age: 16 Location: Ca Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I can't possibly fathom why masturbation has anything fearful about it. The only horrible thing I can imagine is not being able to do it anymore. Aside from that, nothing.
Age: 17 Location: Montana Gender: Male Sexuality: Gay
Only the fear that I'll get caught masturbating with a friend of mine. She showed me how to reach orgasm years ago, and we've been pretty steady masturbation buddies (though we both have boyfriends) for quite some time now. As far as the rest of the world is concerned, we are just two close friends. It might change things if the rest of the world knew just how close we really are.
Age: 17 Location: Chicago Gender: Female Sexuality: Bi
only that i will become addicted. lolz.
Age: 17 Location: Ga Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Just the fear of getting caught.
Age: 17 Location: United States Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
definitely no
Age: 17 Location: TK Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
Not really. I wasnt sure when i first started but through the help of the internet and sites like this, i learned all the actual truths about it and i glad i did.
Age: 17 Location: Western NY Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
not really. i just wonder if there will be a huge difference between masturbation and sex. b/c i sure do hope so. :)
Age: 17 Location: Georgia Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
No, I don't. I love it
Age: 17 Location: TX Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
That it is a sin.
Age: 17 Location: Michigan Gender: Male Sexuality:
That too much can lead to premature ejaculation. Idk if this is true but I believe it so slowed from daily to every other day to once a week. I have noticed that I last longer and blow bigger once a week. Worth the wait :)
Unless I have sex with my gf that does give me any fears about premature ejaculation
Age: 17 Location: IL, USA Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
The only worry i have when masturbating is that im scared of getting caught, other than that i just sit back and enjoy myself
Age: 17 Location: England Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I started masturbating when i was 13, and at first i was worried and a little bit embarassed, however i spoke to my dad about it and he said there is nothing to worry about, i was doing it at your age.
After i heard this from my dad i had no more fears about it.
So maybe you need to speak to someone you can trust.
Age: 17 Location: The World Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
No not really. At first I had no idea what I was doing. But I got used to it.
Age: 17 Location: US Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
Yes and that is getting caught :)!
Age: 17 Location: USA Gender: Sexuality:
No.
Ive never had the fear of getting cought because i really dont care, but i used to fear that i only had so much to offer
Age: 17 Location: nj Gender: Sexuality:
Being caught by a parent or relative haha.
Age: 17 Location: New Zealand Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
Getting caught....by someone u don't want to catch you that iS
Age: 17 Location: Ma Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
The only fear I have about masturbation is getting caught. Especially by my parents or family. Other than that i believe it keeps me sane when i'm not sexually active,lol. Sometimes i get wound up and need to release and not every time a girl is available for that.
Age: 18 Location: Bronx,NY Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Of course not! What's to fear?
Age: 18 Location: Oregon Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Yes. I worry that someone will walk in on me.
Age: 18 Location: PA Gender: Male Sexuality: Gay
No I just wish it was a job cause I'd be rich !
Age: 18 Location: PA Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Yes, I do. I have very small hands and feet, chest hair tends to grow thicker on the left side, my beard is thicker on the right of my throat, and my left leg is longer than my right leg. Due to being too embarassed to talk this all over with a GP, my mindset that all those features are the result of a hormonal imbalance within my body. Testosterone and other nutrients are diverted away from the production of new cells in order to facilitate for additional semen.
Whilst my routine varies from once a week to up to five times a week, I am always ridden with guild and anxiety for the entire day after climaxing. maybe this is all to do with the placebo effect, and my fears are completely unfounded. But all the same I desperately want to stop masturbating...
Age: 18 Location: GREAT Britain Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
yaaaaaaa
Age: 18 Location: canada Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Not really.
Age: 18 Location: canada Gender: Sexuality:
No, of course not! Bitch it's da bomb, like tick tick.
Age: 18 Location: USA Gender: Male Sexuality: Gay
getting caught
Age: 18 Location: PA Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
My only previous fear about masturbation was that I would be walked in on by my parents. My bedroom doesn't have a door, so it was a huge issue for me. That is probably the reason why I make almost no sound when I masturbate.
Now, I'm not quite as careful about not being seen, because it's a bit of a turn-on to think that anyone could walk in on me at any moment. While at college, I often masturbate when my roommate is in the room because it adds that extra level of excitement. I still have yet to have actually been seen, though.
Age: 18 Location: Vermont Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
when i get hard i always get my cock out and wank. but my biggest fear is being caught by a family member. not only would it be embarresing for me, having someone see me jerking off. it would also be embarresing to the person for walking in and seeing me doing it.
Age: 18 Location: New York, New York Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
I used to be afraid I was doing it too often. Especially after a frightening experience with Eczema. It's no fun having that on the tip of your penis! Never mind not being able to jerk off for four weeks. But I am very comfortable now with masturbation and since that Eczema cleared I've never paid more attention to my little buddy.
Age: 18 Location: U.S. Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
only the common fear that I will get caught
Age: 18 Location: My Room Gender: Sexuality:
No
Age: 18 Location: India Gender: Male Sexuality:
none at all I just love it
Age: 18 Location: uk Gender: Male Sexuality: Gay
Using the wrong lube. Some soaps sting!
Age: 18 Location: Houston Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
getting caught
Age: 18 Location: Indiana Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
I don't think so... That wouldn't make a lot of sense cause i do it a minimum of once a day!
Age: 18 Location: MN Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
No way. After a while, it becomes a part of your routine. There's nothing to be afraid of.
Age: 19 Location: CA Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Just getting caught time to time. Other then that it's amazinggggg!
Age: 19 Location: Wiscnsaaan Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
Nope
Age: 19 Location: US Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Not really. I mean granted there are things that I won't do, but I wouldn't say I have any major fears... except for getting caught. That's just wierd for me.
Age: 19 Location: New York Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
Heck no. I've been masturbating for years and I have no fear about it, except maybe being walked in on while in the act.
Age: 19 Location: usa Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Rawr
Age: 20 Location: na Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
No havent had any bad experiences with it
Age: 20 Location: USA Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I have a couple fears about masturbation but my biggest fear would have to be, being caught or heard in the act. My bed is VERY noisey and makes it nearly impossible for me to use techniques such as "the vagina", the first time i attempted it was during a thunderstorm (which is rare), it felt great. Now to masturbate on my bed i have to go to extremes and pull my mattress off of my box spring so that nobody can hear me. If my grandparents were to ever catch me it would be devastating.
Age: 20 Location: Hawaii Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I'm always afraid that since i'm always thinking about masturbation so much that it'll pop out of my mouth in casual conversation especially if it comes out in the worst possible sentence.
Age: 20 Location: hawaii Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
What is there to fear about masturbation?
Age: 20 Location: Ontario Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
Well when I was younger I feared I was doing it too much, perhaps I addicted to the rush and numerously getting caught. I was 14-15 when I realised I was doing it about 4-5 times a week. Until I came across a school-friend, a boy of 15 who went to high-school with me, and we hung out but not a lot. Any way during some various online conversation topics, I discovered that he was as much as into wanking (masturbation) as I was, if not more. We exchanged sexual and masturbation stories/tips for a few months, and on occasion even saw each others penises. We even engaged in dual masturbation where by we were in his bedroom, watching porn and wanking off together, but not each other. We would even have orgasm games, about who could delay it the longest. During this time I perhaps feared that I was getting far to into masturbation. Which led to fears of perhaps more addiction.
Sorry I digress, either way my main fear was addiction, which isn't so much of a problem now as I do it less often, but with the same vigour of when I was 15.
Age: 21 Location: London Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Other than i might rub too hard and hurt my dick for a few days, none.
Age: 21 Location: ct Gender: Male Sexuality: Gay
no, i just dont want to break my cock if i wank to hard
Age: 21 Location: Alabama Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
none at the present, as long as I'm able to get my penis up and jack off or use it with one of my friends with benefits I'm good to go
Age: 21 Location: Michigan Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Besides getting caught? No.
Age: 22 Location: Texas Gender: Male Sexuality: Gay
Not Really other than being caught
Age: 22 Location: Florida Gender: Male Sexuality: Gay
none
Age: 23 Location: philadelphia Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
The only fear I have is that one day I will no longer be able to do it! I know that when some men get married, their wives won't let them masturbate. I hope to have a conversation with my future wife, and she'll be comfortable with it. Either way, I also hope that I am physically able to do it for the rest of my life.
Age: 23 Location: NJ Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Yes. I have chronic prostatitis, and as such tend to find myself wondering and worrying whether or not each orgasm I have (through masturbation or other sexual activities) will cause pain. About half of them do, in good months. More hurt in the winter due to my prostate not liking cold weather.
Age: 24 Location: Northern Indiana Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Only that it might be the only kind of sex I ever get...
Still, I'd rather keep my virginity than lose my integrity.
(but keeping my integrity AND losing my virginity sounds really good.)
Age: 24 Location: Texas Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
My only real worry is that my masturbation habit has stopped me from getting a girlfriend. I masturbate every three days to control my sexual urges but I worry this has stopped me from actively pursuing a sexual partner. I'm definately more open to taking chances when I've had a few days off, but I don't like how I get when I'm horny.
Age: 24 Location: United Kingdom Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Really, all I have is regrets, no fears though. My biggest regret is that I did not masturbate with a few childhood friends when the chances to do so presented themselves. My fantasies still hinge on what might have been between us. I suppose there is a fear attached to this, and that is the fear that I will talk in my sleep and my lover will find out that I am not entirely straight. And then there is the slight fear of getting caught, but that has greatly diminished since the times (when I was 11 to 15-ish) when I masturbated at school or on Boy Scout camping trips.
Age: 24 Location: Indiana Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
the only fear i have is about how my frequent masturbation may affect my marriage to my wife when i find her.
Age: 24 Location: new york Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
this question is a little weird, I cant say that I have any particular fears about it, its probably my favorite activity to do with myself, I guess getting caught might be a fear to some degree, but it wouldn't be that big of a deal because almost everyone does it. In other words I plan on jacking off until the day I die!
Age: 24 Location: Oly Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
When I was younger I used to fear getting caught or that I was becoming addited seeing I could not go a night with out doing it. Now that I am older I dont have those fears any more.
Age: 24 Location: Illiniois Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I don't have any fears about masturbation itself. But I do sometimes worry about how much of a time waster it can be. Sometimes I spend so long masturbating that I'll try and control myself for a while and whenever the urge strikes I'll very quickly get myself off as fast as I can instead of enjoying it for a prolonged period.
Age: 25 Location: Australia Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
No I think it's a thrill. I love to masturbate and like being on the edge of getting caught. There is nothing to fear it's all about pleasure and enjoyment. I am very open to it and have been caught on several occasions by people but it never bothered me. If they wanted to stay and watch are walk away it didn't matter. I think that made it so much better when someone saw me stroking my hard cock and knew I was about to cum.
Age: 25 Location: La Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I'm afraid that I'll have to wait longer and longer between masturbation sessions. Right now, if I do it too many days in a row, my penis becomes desensitized. In order to get back to my original satisfaction level, I need to hold off for a few days.
Age: 25 Location: Wisconsin Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
nope
Age: 25 Location: Kentucky Gender: Inter Sexuality: Unsure
Jigar
Age: 25 Location: India Gender: Male Sexuality:
No. None whatsoever. It's normal, healthy, it feels good, it release tension, relaxes me.
Though on reflection, Yes. I'm afraid I might never get to masturbate another guy again, and my couple of late teen experiences are as good as it gets.
Age: 25+ Location: N.W. London, England Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
whats there to fear? if 90% of guys do it then theres nothing to be afraid of
Age: 26 Location: Los Angeles Gender: Male Sexuality:
No,there are no reasons to have fears about masturbation.It's healthy.
Age: 26 Location: eu Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
Hi!
To this one is an all-round: NOT AT ALL.
I enjoy greatly masturbating since very little, 4yo.
Age: 26 Location: US Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
The only thing I have ever feared is being caught by the wrong people. It's more female family members than anything. When I was a teen my dad always rented porn and would let me know where he had it. I would watch it with him sometimes and stroke over my pants in front of him without feeling wierd, he was doing the same. We never busted it out in front of each other. As for my male friends, I never worried either. A lot of us we stroke buddies and it was cool between us. Girlfriends never scared me either. I always beat off with my girlfriends, or with them around. If we showered together we would mess around with each other. It was just someone like my mom or grandma that scared me. Guess I'm pretty open about this, but only getting caught by a female member of my family scared me. I was never worried about anything else with masturbation. It's not like I was scared about beating too much or hurting myself. It is the most natural thing that somebody can do to please themselves.
Age: 29 Location: Michigan Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
No, why should i? but when i was young when i started it, i was sin, but now i am proud of masturbation.
Age: 30 Location: india Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
not at all
Age: 30 Location: india Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Think I was about 13 my pens. Got hard
Age: 30 Location: hugo Gender: Male Sexuality: Unsure
No what is there to fear? Jerking off is great!
Age: 31 Location: Eastern Montana Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
I'm just afraid I'll do it too much. Not in the medical sense, but I'm always ready, or at least wanting to. I have jacked off to the point that I was just a wee bit chafed and sore but I still am not satisfied.
Age: 32 Location: USA Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Not fears as such - I'm slightly worried that I grow too accustomed to one form of stimulation, that's all.
Age: 33 Location: UK Gender: Inter Sexuality: Bi
The only fear I have is getting caught doing so...but then again, depending on who that may just be a bigger turn on :-)
Age: 34 Location: My own world Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
No. There should be nothing to fear about such a natural thing.
Age: 35 Location: Finland Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Nope.
Age: 38 Location: Canada Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
My only fear about Masturbation is than one day I won't be able to do it... I hope that doesn't happen because I LOVE IT...
Age: 38 Location: Ohio Gender: Male Sexuality: Gay
no
Age: 39 Location: mn Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Well my biggest concern would be, do I masturbate to much. I will admit it I do it on average about 5 to 6 times a day, sometimes more and sometimes less.
Age: 39 Location: Texas Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
No not at all. I've been wanking nearly every day for almost 30 years and its never done me any harm. I'm still enjoying it, can't leave it alone and intend to continue. There's nothing like it, you can't beat it and all men should do it and enjoy it as much as they need without any fears.
Age: 40 Location: UK Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I have no fears about masturbation. It is one of the greatest human experiences. I love getting my penis hard, rubbing it, feeling precum, fantasizing, the orgasm, and the afterglow. No one should fear masturbation, and no one should fear talking about it. Everybody does it!
Age: 41 Location: MN Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
i have experienced minor erectile dysfunction all my life and i sometimes fear that i j/o too much and that i am quickening the journey to complete impotence. i realize there is no evidence that this is even a legitimate concern, but i'm a bit paranoid about over-using whatever activity i have left down there!
Age: 41 Location: usa Gender: Male Sexuality: Gay
Not at all. It is natural and very rewarding.
Age: 42 Location: Iowa Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
When I was very young about 5 or 6 years old when I firststarted i was worried I was the only person masturbated, it didn,t stop me doing it twice a day and I have never stopped and still try to get at least two sessions a day in.
Age: 44 Location: Corby england Gender: Male Sexuality: Gay
I do not have any fears about masturbation.
Age: 45 Location: Wisconsin Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
My biggest fear in not being able to have an erection and masturbate in the future. I had a back injury that has for a short time made me loose the ablity to get an erection and also affected my ability to urinate at full stream. Though both areas have recovered loosing the ability to wank at will is my great fear.
Age: 45 Location: UT Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
No fears at all, even when I started at 12, I had no fears
Age: 45 Location: canada Gender: Male Sexuality: Gay
No. I don't have any fears of causing any problems.
Age: 47 Location: Florida Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
No. It's the best way to relieve tension in your testicles as well as a great stress reliever. Why would something so good be bad anyway? If my Dr. told me to stop masturbating or my Penis would shrivel I would still masturbate.I've been masturbating since I was 13,not going to stop now @ 47
Age: 47 Location: New York Gender: Male Sexuality:
ONLY THAT IT SOMETIMES SEEMS TO DESENSATISES ME SO THAT I CANT GET OFF WITH MY PARDNER WITHOUT MY HER FINISHING ME OFF BY MASTERBATEING ME. MAKES FOR SOME LONG LASTING TERRIFIC SEX FOR HER THOUGH!
Age: 47 Location: VIRGINIA Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Fear? I look forward to it! The only fear I have is that for some unseen circumstances I might not be able to. I guess the fear of getting caught by my parents when I was younger was a concern, more out of embarassment than being punished. Masturbation has always been fun to me!
Age: 48 Location: Ohio Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Not really, but I do have a caution for your readers (male) that have had a inguinal hernia repair. I was told by my doctor to resume sex when I felt ok. So I did BUT I have had to have this surgery done 4 times in the same place and they only commonality was Masturbation too soon after the surgery! SO this time I am going to wait a long time before attempting it. Also I found out cock rings and ball strechers also make them reoccur!
Age: 48 Location: california Gender: Male Sexuality: Gay
No
Age: 48 Location: Saint Paul Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Fears, hmmmm. A few. I fear that she may find out how much I actually do masturbate, compared to the 'occasional session' as discussed. At 50, I fear that the day could approach that it might not work as well, so, hey, make cum while the sun shine, huh? Use it till you lose it. Otherwise I am way beyond the worry that, oh, it's wrong, or abnormal, or immature. I have a great sex life with her, AND with myself. Like Nike says, just do it.
Age: 50 Location: NY Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I have no fears, phobias,or hangups.Enjoy masturbation its a gift.Experiment get as much enjoyment from it while you can!
Age: 50 Location: wa Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
My only fear is that at some point I might lose the ability to have erections and not be able to masturbate anymore. Other than that, my only worry is that I won't have the necessary privacy to masturbate as much as I want to.
Age: 51 Location: Virginia Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
no
Age: 52 Location: de Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
are you kidding??? Masturbation is the best thing!!! I do it everyday!!! I will also Masturbate until the day I die, that is...if I can.....
Age: 52 Location: Studio City CA Gender: Male Sexuality: Gay
Recently, I have noticed that it is harder and harder for me to orgasm and ejaculate. I fear that I may soon not be able to climax at all.
Age: 52 Location: Los Angeles, CA USA Gender: Male Sexuality: Gay
Only what happens when I can't anymore
Age: 53 Location: CO Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
When I was young I used to be afraid I'd get caught in the act, particularly by my parents. Was so ultra careful that it never happened. Now? I'm mainly afraid of my wife finding my porn. The sky wouldn't collapse, but I'd rather not go through that argument.
Age: 53 Location: West Coast Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Fears?!..OMG No!..I think Jackin and finding NEW fun ways TO jack is something that is just another part of everybodys sex life! I am sure some guys jackoff for wayy too long (per day?) or maybie too often (every single day or several TIMES every single day?) and it might be fine for awhile, but my feelings are that a good whack off daily..or several times a wk. at least, is wonderful for men.
Age: 57 Location: Ohio Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
None whatsoever. Quite the opposite, i cherish the act of masturbation as a healthy expression of my sexuality.
Age: 58 Location: USA Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Only that if I should break both arms, I wouldn't be able to do it for awhile!!
Age: 60 Location: Hawaii Gender: Male Sexuality: Gay
No, I have no fears about masturbating. The first time I had an ejaculation I was a bit apprehensive since I had no idea what had happened. But it felt so good to me that it didn't take long to get over any possible fear. It just felt too good to me.
Age: 61 Location: Tulsa, OK Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
At this point in my life, I do not have any fears about masturbation. I consider the complex nature of my sexual creation to be nothing less than a gift from God. Sexual response and satisfaction provide a great balance to the aches and pains I now experience from other parts of my body! I am constantly amazed as to the many types of sexual joy I can experience other than the traditional way of masturbation I discovered as a teen.
Age: 61 Location: Maine Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I dont know why i should have any fears about masturbation it's something almost every healty male do and have to do.
Age: 62 Location: belgium Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I can recall rubbing my penis since I was probably 6. I didn't know what it was it just felt nice. Now I am 64 and still masturbate daily. My doctor tells me I have the prostrate of a 20 year old and my PSA is less than 1. Whats there to worry about? Enjoy yourself it's one of the few pleasures that are safe, free and not taxed.
Age: 64 Location: RI Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
no fears at all!
Age: 65 Location: san francisco Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Fears, eh? When young and ignorant I feared doing it too much. I struggled to keep my limit to three a day unless circumstance allowed a marathon that left three in the dust. (In situations like church camp I was held to one or two a day - a sexual starvation diet for me.) I also feared getting caught at my hobby, especially since I liked to strip off or fool around in skimpy or torn underwear. It would not be easy explaining to mother if she walked in why I was doing a naked handstand in the corner. It wasn't Yoga. The other getting caught fear, in its way bigger and in some respects worse than mom catching me, was being found out by certain other schoolmates or girls. I had a small circle of sex play pals in Scouts where mutually getting our rocks off was OK. Most times this was in the form of sex talk while solo stroking in our sleeping bags. Hot nights we might go at it openly laughing and cheering each other. On some occasions, mostly associated with longer campouts sex play could turn more generous with tentmates rubbing each other all over with towels if we'd snuck off to skinnydip. Four to a tent, there was plenty to play with. It was all good fun. Feeling bold, I once masturbated two at once. I even admitted I liked doing it. No one minded. I was well repaid. - Two cousins were also great sex pals. We were the same age, seven or eight, when my cousin and I first took our pants off in his attic, later basement, bedroom, garage, and outdoors in the bushes. We must have been eleven, fifth grade, the first time our families vacationed together. The two boys were pushed onto the porch to sleep. We loved it. One of his buddies had recently showed him "the secret." He showed me. I'd got real good bangs or buzzes before, but carrying through the way he showed was better. So long as his snoopy sisters didn't find out we were safe. We knew how to hide. Those were good vacations with lots of wild ass summertime sex play until we turned fifteen and started feeling odd about it. Him more than me. - I had another cousin two years younger, but aggressive. When no one was looking he'd grab my crotch and laugh. He wanted to know if I had "a hairy one." At thirteen I had enough hair to matter. He persuaded me to show it. He was impressed and eagerly played with what I had. I felt uneasy with him because he was younger, but there was no reluctance on his part. He was determined to make me come, and he did, that time and at least once virtually every time our families visited. On one occasion he took me to the basement of a friend's house where a boy waited to hurry us into a cramped, musty room with a cot. I didn't like it. I felt trapped and would have left had my cousin not begun stripping himself and his friend. I didn't leave. The cot held three, barely, but it held us.
Did I fear these secrets becoming known? Yes. Why? Because if known a stop might be put to them. That was my real fear.
Age: 66 Location: on a lovely lakeshore Gender: Male Sexuality: Gay
I have no fears about masturbation. In fact the older I get the more I enjoy it and the more that I know it is necessary. If you do not have erections, ejaculations, you will lose the ability to have an erection.
Age: 67 Location: ILLINOIS Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Why would a male fear something so wonderful?
I personally have no fears about masturbation.
Age: 68 Location: Florida Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Yes, that my moaning and verbalizing will wake up the neighbors—even though the houses are on large lots in suburbia.
Age: 69 Location: Right here Gender: Male Sexuality:
Only my wife catching me again and telling me if that is what I prefer, I'll not get any from her. She does good head and hand jobs and I would hate to lose that, but I can't stop masturbating when she is not around. In fact I just did.
Age: 69 Location: New York Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
When I was a young teen I was worried that I would run out of sperm/semen if I masturbated too much. Well here I am a much older person and I still have not run out. Plus I still enjoy intercourse on a very frequent basis.
Age: 70 Location: Georgia Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
I have been masturbating for 61 years. My only fear is that, some day I may not be able to do it.
Age: 71 Location: Texas Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
When I first started jacking, when I was 11, I had a fear that I was doing something wrong, but that fear didn't last very long. Much later, I developed a fear when I began a session that I would have a poor-quality orgasm, that I would "get no satisfaction". My goal was to build up to a strong, satisfying orgasm, and that sometimes didn't happen. So that was just about the only fear that I had.
Age: 73 Location: MA Gender: Male Sexuality: Bi
Yes, that I won't be able to. I've been masturbating for sixty-eight years and the time of my last masturbation is coming ever closer, alas. Other than that, what fears could anyone possible have? Do people fear breathing?
Age: 74 Location: Florida Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
doing it once a week may be to much
Age: 81 Location: florida Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
The year I was fourteen, someone gave me a Five Tear Diary. It had four short lines for recording the events of each day. I started out with the weather, school activities, chores, and people I met. After 2 weeks, I realized that I was missing one thing, my jacking off. I had been doing it since I was 9 years old and thought it was part of my life. I didn't want to spell it out, so I devised a secret code, the letter T. I put the T near the time of day I did it - at the beginning for morning; at the end when going to bed, etc.
I made entries in the Diary for 1 1/2 years, and still have the book. It is an excellent record of my early masturbatory life. Somme years later, I made a calendar and marked only the days that I jacked off.Studying this data, I can see a fear that evolved during that year and a half.
WhenI started the diary, I had been ejaculating only six months and had developed a smooth pattern of jacking off 2 or 3 times a week. By March I was well into pubberty. My penis started to grow, and the amount of semen I produced increased.
One Saturday morning in late March I wondered if I could pump myself dry of semen. The first try was normal, the second time it was greatly diminished, and on the third climax I was dry. In the mid-afternoon try, the semen waas almost normal.
After that experience my pace increased to about 4 maybe 5 times . During the mounth of my fifteenth birthday, June, I jacked off every day. After that I slowly tapered off during the summer. By the time I returned to school, I was back on the 2 or 3 times a week schedule
There was a friend in my Boy Scout trop that I jacked off with after scout meetings. One day he brought The Boy Scout Handbook to school. He said that he had something to show me. Near the back of the book was a section called Conservation. The word masturbation wasn't used, but every boy who read it knew exactly what it was talking about. The Handbok advised that if s scout had the habit, he should stop doing it because it waas "not manly."
Not manly, that was a new thought. We were Boy Scouts and were expected to be manly and save our strength.
I jacked off one more on Saturday, and then began my period of abstinence. Back in June, when I was doing it once a day, I did it and then my need was over for the day. Now, when my penis got hard, it demanded my attention all day long. When I dressed, it rose up. When I bathed, it begged to be jerked. When I road my bicycle, it threw me off balance. It only went down when it couldn't stand up any longer. I stroked it until it was just an inch from the point of no return, and then I would stop. I wonderedif this really counted as a day of not jacking off. Then on Saturday of the third week, I hit the no return point. I shot and it was over so quickly that I wondered if itt ought to count as a day of not doing it. I continued with my struggle. It never got any easier. WhenI got out of bed in the middle of the next four weeks, my penis was hard as a steel pipe. I put my hand around it and beat until it exploded. The next morning, the same thing happened. I knew that my ordeal was over. Manly or not, I felt better when I was jacking off. I went back to 2 times a week, but my battle was not over.
The gym teacher was telling his Health Ed classes that eveery time you ejaculated, it was like losing a pint of blood. I couldn't figure that one out. What about young married men. They were losing the same amount of semen in intercourseas young guys were while jacking off.
I went to a biology teacher who I respected and asked about masturbation and this suppsed loss of blood. He hedged. It turned out that he was a scoutmaster also. He said that the manliness thing came from General Braden-Powell who was the British founder of the Boy Scouts and a greatt believer in physical fitness. The teacher didn't go for the loss of blood idea, but he didn't come out for jacking off either. He talked a long time; I am was not sure about what he was trying to say, and I came away as bewildered as I was before. I went home and jacked off. I quit writing in the diary and developed a modest schedule of trouble free masturbation that served me well for a long long time.
Age: many years Location: Maryland Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight
Not really.
Age: whatever it needs to be Location: My mind Gender: Male Sexuality: Straight